Marriage changes many things, specially giving a girl a new identity of life, a new responsibility to work upon and a loving family to take care of .Bidaai is the door to this new world, after marriage the departure from native home to a foreign world of SASURAAL .
The word Bidaai means the farewell to the bride from her parents’ home to start a journey of life with the in-laws. But this small word carries a whole plethora of new events. the bride is released from her parental bond, from her mother’s love, from her father’s care, from her brother’s protection, from her sister’s laugh . The tears , the silent moaning and the blessings all make her departing soul a heavy one, a transformation from loving daughter to a responsible wife. But the sadness is not for the loss. The tears and the heavy heart gasps for the new hope, new light and the new life of the bride.
Bidaai is not only the celebration of the departure but the welcome to the coming life. The parental influence, the familial atmosphere dissolves into a tears that drips down the cheeks , the pangs of pain, the red-eyes all hope for a new beginning, new dawn of life. Bidaai gives away an identity as well as brings another one – ‘WIFE’.
From being a daughter to becoming a wife, that’s all about bidaai. The loving and caring relationship that has nourished the little girl into a grown up lady, the sibling fights and the pranky giggles that once lit up the hearts of the family members is now gone forever.
The little girl is no more there, she is now a grown up princess, going through a change of life, going to another kingdom and every one of the family hopes that she will have an enchanted life of “HAPPILY EVER AFTER”
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